When two people start their lives together, many conversations are had on how to intertwine their lives. But does this mean the finances of the couple should become one all the time? Back in the good old days, this was a given. If you get married, they issue you a joint banking account with your marriage license! Times certainly have changed, and this is no longer the default, or even the correct option for couples just starting out. The big question still remains. How do we decide how to handle our finances once we are married? We will touch on the most popular methods of handling money in relationships and the Pros and Cons of each.
If you have spoken with your future or current spouse and have decided that combining finances will be best for your relationship, suit up and take the plunge! In some aspects, this is the easiest path forward, and leads to the fewest fights, issuers, and hidden money issues that the other options allow. Some of the pros and cons are below:
The most common option by far is combine the majority of the finances while leaving some ambiguity in the relationship. The partial combine option allows the couple the total flexibility to define the type of accounts and the relationship interaction over money. Typically this involves one joint account for the shared expenses, and personal accounts for each spouse.
The complete separation of church and state. Why in the world would this ever make sense? Never talk to your spouse about money? Never combine? How could that ever work?
I will tell you how couples in this paradigm make it work. The 100% separate route is EXTREMELY common with the new generation and to be honest, when there is significant income discrepancy, this method allows for the most optimum deployment of resources, however it does not consider the entire family impact the majority of the time. If all members of the relationship search out their full desires, how can the relationship continue? 100% separate relationships are entirely supportable and recommended in certain scenarios where both parties in the relationship are fully employed, have fully funded roles and retirement accounts, and are looking to align expectations from today and in the future. The completely separate couple works in legitimate scenarios, and when appropriate the separate but equal relationship is the best possible option.
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